Easy Things Men Can Do To Become More Attractive To Women
if you want to meet that someone special, you have to get it together. Get your head in the game ... and you'll come out winning in the end.
Attraction is a poor approval of several qualities that girls observe when checking you out. If we seem interested, we must like what we see on the outside.
Obviously, there are many things girls dig in a guy that benefits the surface as well that can not be seen at first glance:
Is he a complete tool?
Is he loyal, or is he a cheat?
Does he have ambition, or is he a couch potato shotgunning beer on the reg?
Aside from NOT doing the above things, there are some simple things you can do to make an awesome first impression. Once you've done her eye, this list will help you become aware of other qualities we look for so you do not screw the rest up.
DO NOT FLAUNT HOW "WELL-OFF" YOU ARE
She will not - I repeat, WILL NOT - want you to whip out your wallet to show off your bankroll or wave your Rolex in her face
Braggy behavior like this screams "complete and utter douchebag," and she will certainly not find you even the least bit attractive
There's something sexy about a guy who is modest about his achievements. Feeling the need to flaunt your status and income when meeting a girl does not make for a great impression. It will actually send her sprinting for the hills
I can not stress this enough ... DO NOT be that guy.
KEEP YOUR EYES ON YOUR DATE
There's nothing more insulting or annoying than a guy with a wandering eye. If your gaze keeps straying away from your date when you're supposed to be trying to get to know her, you will not get very far.
She wants to feel like you're really interested in her ... not in another girl's booty across the room. She will notice that really fast. And once she catches on, it's your ass that'll be getting the boot.
SHOW OFF A GENUINE, SEXY SMILE
This may sound cliche, but a great smile could make or break it with a girl. A great sense of humor and handsome smile is both warm and inviting. But it should be natural, so definitely do not force it. Put on the best smile you've got, and use your good wit.
DRESS TO IMPRESS
She wants to know you've accomplished something in your life, or at least have a good sense of where you want to be, without you being super braggy
A good-fitting pair of jeans, crisp button-down, and nice shoes also go a long way. Baggy sweatpants hanging below your boxers? Not so much
It's so true that you only get one chance to make a great first impression. What you're wearing tells a lot about how you want to present yourself to the world. So dress to impress, and do not take any shortcuts.
KEEP YOUR BOYS IN CHECK
Your friends are a reflection of who you are. If she likes the friends you're with, that's a great sign of the choices you make
If your buds constantly brag about how many chicks they're taking home tonight, she may assume you're just like them
If your friends crush it with their personalities, there's a good chance she will like the entire picture. Things will be looking good.
SHOW OFF YOUR GOOD PERSONALITY
Rise to the occasion, and be the best version of yourself. Keep the convo light, fun and entertaining ... no complaining about weird ex baggage
Now is your best time to really stun her and shine
She wants to know your interests along drinking and picking up girls, so definitely let her know some of your hobbies. Let things roll, see what the night brings and be positive.
BE CONFIDENT, BUT NOT COCKY
Confidence is a super sexy trait to have. A confident man is a lucky man who will definitely get far with the ladies
Cockiness will get you now, no matter how hot you are. No one likes a pompous ass ... and we definitely do not want to date one.
SHOW US YOUR SENSITIVE SIDE
She will want to know you're a really good guy. Not only will she pay nely good guy. Not only will she pay attention to how you speak to her, but she will also watch how you speak and interact with others.
It should be obvious that you are interested in learning more about her. Even if it's simply asking about her day, it shows that you care and this will score you major points in her book
There really is nothing hotter than showing a girl you want to get to know her. If you constantly talk about yourself without letting her get a word in, she'll be on to the next dude in a heartbeat.
KEEP THE CONVO FLOWING
This should be an easy one If things unfold naturally, you'll end up talking to her the entire night ... and enjoying every second of it
If you're fighting to keep the convo alive, it's not happening. Face reality, and move on.
SHOW US YOUR MIND
She wants to know you're smart. A smart guy is really attractive
Showing her you're smart is quite different from being a wise-ass (MAJOR turn-off)
Be witty, not a jerk.
DO NOT TRY TOO HARD
When all is said and done, just be yourself Approach her knowing that the attraction has to be mutual. If the girl is not instantly feeling it, then it's not really worth the effort to pursue anything further It's a bummer, but you just have to deal
Do not get too chew up in the steps, but keep them in the back of your mind as you try to win her attention.